'Honor Killing' Comes Stateside
 

"No one knows just how many Muslim girls and women are murdered each year in the name of family 'honor,' since their deaths frequently go unreported and unpunished. The cases that do come to light are ghastly. Recently, the Saudi human rights activist Wajeha al-Huwaidar wrote a scathing essay characterizing honor killings as a scourge peculiar to the 'Greater Middle East,' with its entrenched culture of misogyny and male supremacy. … But while honor killings may be more prevalent in the Middle East, no longer are they unknown in the West. In the Atlanta suburb of Jonesboro last month, a Pakistani immigrant allegedly strangled his 25-year-old daughter with a bungee cord because she was determined to end her arranged marriage … In Upstate New York a few weeks earlier, Waheed Allah Mohammad, an immigrant from Afghanistan, was charged with attempted murder after repeatedly stabbing his 19-year-old sister. … she was a 'bad Muslim girl,' he told sheriff's investigators. On New Year's Day in Irving, Texas, the bullet-riddled bodies of the Said sisters - Sarah, 17, and Amina, 18 - were found in an abandoned taxi. Police issued an arrest warrant for their father, an Egyptian immigrant named Yaser Abdel Said, who had reportedly threatened to kill them upon learning that they had boyfriends."

Comments (20)

No. 1 · *M*

No words describes how sad this makes me and how much it makes me distrust religion.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 11:55 am
No. 2 · Gangstarr Girl

This is absolutely disgusting.

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Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 1:08 pm
No. 3 · abbey

This is not religious. It's cultural. Nothing to do with Islam. American Muslims don't do this. AFrican muslims don't do this. Chinese muslims don't do this…etc.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 1:12 pm
No. 4 · solitaire

African muslims just cut off your clit.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 1:52 pm
No. 5 · DEAF FEMINIST PUNK!!!!!!!!!!

Solitaire, stop with your racist BS against Muslims. I've been seeing nothing but hateful comments from you whenever Stereohyped has an article about Muslims. If you want to take your racist BS, go somewhere else.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 1:58 pm
No. 6 · Tariq Nelson

Some cultural practices are just bad. This is why cultural relativism does not work. We have to call wrong, wrong no matter who it is and not allow people to continue to get away with "well, that is their culture" as an excuse for unacceptable crimes against others

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 2:06 pm
No. 7 · DLS

Obviously, I can't really speak for Abbey, but it seems like her point was not to excuse the honor crimes, but to make a distinction between the extent to which culture vs. religious doctrine plays a factor in facilitating these crimes.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 2:24 pm
No. 8 · solitaire

Oh piss off deaf feminist twit. The last I checked islam was a religion, and not a race, so that squashes your racism bullshit.

I haven't said untrue about muslims on this site. African muslims do routinely cut off the clits of women, and that is a FACT.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 2:27 pm
No. 9 · that chick

@ Solitaire

Its not just African Muslims that do this, as your statement seems to imply. Heck, its not just Muslims either.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 6:08 pm
No. 10 · ilnazhad

Except, less white people are Muslim than Christian… some people who hate muslims only do so because they hate the ways of non-whites. In a way, it is racism. And maybe you should grow up and stop telling "twits" (a very kind Stereohyped regular) to "piss off." Anyway, "bigotry" may have been a better word, but that mistake does not squash the "racism bullshit." Although I wasn't offended by your statement, it could come off as a cruel simplification.
I am offended by your statement about Jamaicans, though.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 6:36 pm
No. 11 · Daria at Gorgeous Black Women

I agree with Tariq. The same practice of maintaining a family's honor by killing someone was the same rationale used by the Indian man who killed his African-American daughter-in-law because having a black person in the family is shameful.

These have been prevalent in the UK. I had no idea that it had reached state side though I'd heard of people driving their female relatives to commit suicide.

@Solitaire, FGM is practiced by non-muslims. My understanding is that it has more to do with culture than religion as it is far more common in nomadic people in Africa than in Muslim people. Also, it happens in the middle East too. In Egypt, technically in Africa but considered "Middle Eastern", 96% of married women have been mutilated. This mutilation of course varies from group to group. I know in some people, they cut the labia minora which American women are doing now to get their genitals to look like those they see in Playboy. In other groups, they cut off the labia minora and the hood of the clitoris. In others, they remove pretty much everything external and sometimes even sew the labia majora together which of course causes a LOT of life long issues with urination, menstruation, sex and child birth. There's scarring and infections. Katouche Niane's sister and cousin died after theirs was done.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 7:03 pm
No. 12 · Chic Noir

abbey
This is not religious. It's cultural. Nothing to do with Islam. American Muslims don't do this. AFrican muslims don't do this. Chinese muslims don't do this…etc.

Cosign, I think people are forgetting that these people had a culture and religions before they became muslims.

Solitaire- African Female circumsion is not something that happens only among musilims. The practice is not linked to any religion actually.

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 at 10:42 pm
No. 13 · Tariq Nelson

I think people are forgetting that these people had a culture and religions before they became muslims.

And it takes education from others to tell them that this practice is wrong

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 6:16 am
No. 14 · Daria at Gorgeous Black Women

Tariq, it takes lady balls (in Stephen Colbert's words). Waris Dirie knew that what was done to her was wrong just as she knew that marrying some old dude in her early teens is f-ed up. She went through with the cutting but ran away when it came to the marriage. She didn't have any education at the time.

Egyptian women and girls are probably far more educated than the many nomads and village GIRLS who run away when faced with the cutting.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 9:29 am
No. 15 · Daria at Gorgeous Black Women

…which is significant because only 2 in 50 married Egyptian women have the external genitalia they were born with.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 9:31 am
No. 16 · DEAF FEMINIST PUNK!!!!!!!!!!

Solitiare, why don't YOU "piss off" and try to educate yourself before making ignorant, hateful, bigoted comments? You sure you're not some white trash redneck? Cos you sure sound like one from where I live.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 10:42 am
No. 17 · solitaire

No, you piss off deaf feminist TWIT. Which is exactly what you are, and you scream it with each of your idiotic posts.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 12:30 pm
No. 18 · sahm

@ Solitaire & DFP

I come on this site all the time and rarely do I ever comment. I hope the two of you realize how serious this topic is and how childish and hurtful your comments are. These are women whose lives are being threatened because of these honor killings. You should stay focused on that and be thankful that you don't have to walk a day in their shoes.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 3:30 pm
No. 19 · ilnazhad

"white trash redneck"
Those are racist remarks…

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 3:59 pm
No. 20 · Chic Noir

think people are forgetting that these people had a culture and religions before they became muslims.

And it takes education from others to tell them that this practice is wrong

I agree, but I think the message would hold more weight if the elder or more respected women in the village were to the ones to do most of the teaching. Having an outsider, especially a male outsider, talking to women about their genitals will be met with resistance.

Posted: Aug 14, 2008 at 4:21 pm
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