Despite their breakup, Selita Ebanks and Nick Cannon say they are still friends. What they surely won't say is that "friends" is probably all they ever were.

"We're still cool," Cannon, 27, told PEOPLE at a holiday party in West Hollywood for designer Christian Audigier. "I talked to her today. We're still real good."

Cannon popped the question in May with an over-the-top proposal on a Times Square JumboTron. But the two disagreed on wedding plans, with Ebanks, 24, telling PEOPLE in June, "He's all about the bling and having a big wedding. Me? I'm all about the courthouse."

Now that the breakup is behind them, Ebanks and Cannon still share the occasional dinner, she tells the December issue of Esquire.

Meanwhile, as Nick Cannon woos every similar-looking girl from the A-G List, Selita has apparently moved on (read: upgraded) to tennis star James Blake.