
Lauren Williams: What made you decide to write Party Crashing?
Keli Goff: The book Party Crashing actually came from conversations with my friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. Actually, the was one conversation in particular that sparked the initial light bulb that led to the book. I ran into an acquaintance that I hadn't seen in close to two years, here in New York. We were catching up, and I asked her about an upcoming event. I asked her, "Are you going to that event? You know, that Democratic fundraiser for that candidate." And she said, "I'm not sure I'm going to attend. I'm not sure I'm supporting him." And I thought, oh my gosh. That was such a faux pas. That was so presumptuous of me! I just assumed she was supporting that Democratic candidate, and she's probably supporting the other one. And what I didn't presume was what she said next, which was, "Actually, I'm not sure I'm supporting a Democrat. I'm a registered independent."
And the reason that was interesting is because not only is she, like myself, a young African American woman, and in my head African Americans are Democrats — because that's what most of us are — but also what made it interesting was that we met when we were both volunteering in Democratic politics at the start of our careers. At that time, she was a Democrat. I wasn't sure what had transpired that precipitated this significant change. I specifically went back to interview her when I started writing Party Crashing, and she said to me, "I know that water hoses happened, I know that attack dogs happened, but that is not my experience in this country. And you have to adjust your message to reflect the experiences of the audience you're trying to reach. I don't think the Democratic Party has done that."
There were other people I ended up speaking with. The story of my first conversation with her was repeated over several months. I ran into young black people who were no longer Democrats. I had a conversation with a relative in my home state of Texas who was a registered independent. I said to myself, I'm not sure what officially constitutes a trend, but that's a handful of people. And I hadn't really heard about this or read about this, and that's where the inspiration for the book came from.
Well, as a Black registered independent, I will definitely look forward to reading this book.
I tell you Lauren, you are one heck of a journalist. I enjoy reading your entries daily and cannot wait for the next one. You inspire me both as a writer and as a Black woman who knows who she is and where she comes from. I appreciate your candid reporting. Keep up the magnificent work!
I am a 46 year old Black woman (who graduated from UVa in '83, Lauren) who first registered as an independent when I moved to Milwaukee from Baltimore 20 years ago. When I moved back east 11 years ago I again registered as an independent although in Baltimore, it means that I cannot vote in primaries. When we got together for Christmas, my 45 year old sister and 40 year old brother announced that they too were registered as independents. We had separately come to the conclusion that we didn't want to be taken for granted by the Democratic party. This in spite of the fact that our cousin (now 43) was one of the youngest people ever elected to the Maryland state senate.
Perhaps my siblings and I were destined to be contrarians. Our father is a registered Democrat, while our mother is a registered Republican. We spent most of the 1960s in Puerto Rico and therefore experienced the civil rights movement through a television set. We were raised Catholic - in the suburbs. We've all travelled to Africa multiple times. We all struggled with what it meant to grow up black and middle class in the 1970s (and 80s in the case of my brother). In the end, although we embrace our African American heritage, we don't let other people define what we should do or think as Black folks.
I will admit that I intend to vote for Obama - partly because of our mutual ages, experience growing up on tropical islands and attendance at Columbia U in the 1980s - but mostly because he doesn't expect that I'll vote for him just because I'm Black.
Another great read, Lauren. Hadn't seen that video before. How ridiculous is that man>?
they're contrarian but are they registered?
Yea, we're registered in Baltimore, DC and Oakland.